To the girl who can't move on, It's okay. It really is. You don't just move on that easily from a guy you love. It would be weird if you were already over him. It's also normal to lie to yourself and say you're truly done. It's not that easy. Everyone tells you "It gets easier over time" and it's true that it does. What they don't tell you is it gets harder before it gets easier and while it's hard, it's going to be rough, it's going to be difficult, it's going to be a struggle. You're going to feel relationship withdrawals, the loneliness is gonna hit you, and anxiety is something you're gonna be familiar with. Certain places will bring back memories, and certain songs will remind you of him, certain moments will make you miss him. Almost anything and everything will trigger your feelings for him and it'll hurt you. You'll feel like getting back with him is the only thing that'll make you feel better. Being his girlfriend again would be the easy thing to do. That relationship is what feels safe and right and you'd pick up where you left off with him if you had the chance. But keep in mind, okay? Keep in mind that you aren't with him anymore for a reason and if you were to get back with him now, then you'll eventually break up with him again for the same reason it ended in the first place. Who knows how long it'll be hard for? However, as long as it may take, everything will get better in time because time really does heal everything, but that's only if you let it. So let it, because it'll be worth it.