Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you've been together for years. It's always fun in the beginning. It's always exciting when you're getting to know each other. It's always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That's when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because "the spark is gone" and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that's not how it's supposed to be. No, that's not how it works. It doesn't have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that's when you're supposed to remember why you're with that person in the first place and it's never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it's always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that's when you're supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they're being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you're done, that's when you're supposed to realize that no matter who you're with, it's always going to get "boring" so you might as well be with someone who's willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.

To the girl who can't move on, It's okay. It really is. You don't just move on that easily from a guy you love. It would be weird if you were already over him. It's also normal to lie to yourself and say you're truly done. It's not that easy. Everyone tells you "It gets easier over time" and it's true that it does. What they don't tell you is it gets harder before it gets easier and while it's hard, it's going to be rough, it's going to be difficult, it's going to be a struggle. You're going to feel relationship withdrawals, the loneliness is gonna hit you, and anxiety is something you're gonna be familiar with. Certain places will bring back memories, and certain songs will remind you of him, certain moments will make you miss him. Almost anything and everything will trigger your feelings for him and it'll hurt you. You'll feel like getting back with him is the only thing that'll make you feel better. Being his girlfriend again would be the easy thing to do. That relationship is what feels safe and right and you'd pick up where you left off with him if you had the chance. But keep in mind, okay? Keep in mind that you aren't with him anymore for a reason and if you were to get back with him now, then you'll eventually break up with him again for the same reason it ended in the first place. Who knows how long it'll be hard for? However, as long as it may take, everything will get better in time because time really does heal everything, but that's only if you let it. So let it, because it'll be worth it.

IT'S OK TO CRY If you need to cry because you just broke up with someone who was so special to you, then cry… There’s nothing wrong with doing that because within those clear tears are hurt, pain, questions, love, anger regret and more. You must let them out or you will only explode within yourself. You may cry for many days and nights as you want, but just make sure when you're finished, you never cry for the same reason again, I know u feel so down but overtime you will be back to your old self, laughing again, having fun again and being who you truly are, It’s not the end, Someone understanding who won’t treat you like a toy just like the way your EX did will come your way and wipe away all your tears, erase that pain and even give you endless happiness. So sister is time to wake up and move on with your life and forget about that person who mistreated you.