Someday someone will love every inch of me – the fading sunset behind my eyes, the moonlight that dances through my hair, the sadness nestled in the creases of my palms. He is going to kiss all the parts I have kept hidden away and tell me how beautiful it all is. Someday someone is going to say, ‘I love all of you, not just the parts that make sense, not just the parts you have shown me. I love the parts of you that I don’t yet understand, the parts that weigh on your shoulders, the parts I only notice when I steal glances at you in silence.’ I will need to believe you, to believe that fairy tales were not written for princesses in glass slippers, that they were written for women who have collected all the pieces of a broken heart and can’t stand to put it together again. But most of all, I will need to believe that they were written for me.Someday someone will come to me with a happily ever after promise and slide it over my finger. Someday I will realize I am not the lucky one, I am the deserving one. Someday I am going to take someone’s breath away. Someday I will realize just how stunning I really am.

You deserve all those sleepless nights and that second cup of coffee. You deserve to be having a hard time, to be struggling your way through every single day because there’s no other way to make you realize how much you want your dreams to come true.

There are moments where you question yourself, ask why you didn’t just go the easier path. Sometimes you even blame other people for the hardships that you are encountering, pointing fingers, forgetting that you wouldn’t be where you are without them.

Sometimes it gets to a point where you just want to give everything up.

But even with all those challenges, you have to remind yourself that you deserve to be struggling because it reminds you to want it more.

Our greatest fear is if our dream isn’t for us. It is hard. But you also have to realize that it is okay to complain from time to time, to cry and breakdown.

You have to remember to be human.

Although it is easier to let your emotions eat you up, always remember that you have to do it; you have to get up and finish that case to understand the law so you can defend those who need it, or to continue to study that last page of your anatomy book so you can correctly diagnose patients and save lives, or maybe, you have to stay up not only for yourself but for everyone else so that the future will be brighter.

You have to keep in mind that you are where you are not only because of a dream or the desire to change the world but also because of the struggle of other people to help you reach your goal.

You are not alone in your journey to finishing your degree, so remember to thank everyone else who continuously pushes you to fight and believe.

Remember that you are struggling because you have to, that nothing good comes easy, and as cliché as it may be, remember that the fire that melts butter is the same fire that hardens steel.

I know how hard it is to remain strong or even to fake that I am strong. I admire myself being resilient amidst all the problems that I have. I always remember that dark days always come to an end.

I know that I am losing sleep and appetite but I always remember that every problem in our life happens for a reason. I might not understand the purpose of it for now, but at the right time definitely, I will. In every door that closes, new opportunities will surely come in my way.

I know that people come and go. People change. I cherish the people who stick with me. Let go the people who don't deserve me. Life is too short to be together with someone causing so much distress in my life.

I know I am not alone in life. I am loved. I am worth it. Better days are coming. I do not give up easily in life. I deserve better. I deserve all the happiness in the world. I swear, I will be FINE. My happiness and joy will be back and that is for sure.

I never knew that true love exists, I always get my heart shattered, people always leave and get tired of me. I only knew true love existed in fictions and movies. Every so often those couples I admired from afar that I thought would have a happily ever after ends up breaking up too, I have always thought that it is too good to be true. But then, you came into my life. I was hopeless before you even knew my name. You made me realize that true love does exist. You gave me this feeling that I never felt towards someone else before. Ever since you came, there is no one worth thinking about. I ended up believing in faith, destinies, and fantasies about love, you made every love story written in this world all worth believing and you changed my point of view, it is all because of you. True love is even though we are far away from each other, our hearts know that distance cannot rip us apart. True love is acceptance, I accept all your flaws, including your past and mistakes. All the things you hate about yourself but, I still find them beautiful. True love is patience, I am willing to wait with you, I am willing to wait no matter how long it takes, even if it takes a lifetime because I know everything will be worth it in the end. True love is selfless, I will always put you first rather than myself just to make you happy, I will always choose what is the best for you. True love is assurance, I trust you with all my heart; no doubts, uncertainty and suspicions. True love is not found, it is built, our love will grow as time passes by; it will be stronger. True love is not easy, there will be ups and downs; there will be challenges and sufferings, I am willing to face them all with you, I will never let go and I will always hold on. I never knew what they meant by true love until I met you. True love is rare but I found it with you.

Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you've been together for years. It's always fun in the beginning. It's always exciting when you're getting to know each other. It's always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That's when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because "the spark is gone" and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that's not how it's supposed to be. No, that's not how it works. It doesn't have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that's when you're supposed to remember why you're with that person in the first place and it's never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it's always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that's when you're supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they're being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you're done, that's when you're supposed to realize that no matter who you're with, it's always going to get "boring" so you might as well be with someone who's willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you.

To the girl who can't move on, It's okay. It really is. You don't just move on that easily from a guy you love. It would be weird if you were already over him. It's also normal to lie to yourself and say you're truly done. It's not that easy. Everyone tells you "It gets easier over time" and it's true that it does. What they don't tell you is it gets harder before it gets easier and while it's hard, it's going to be rough, it's going to be difficult, it's going to be a struggle. You're going to feel relationship withdrawals, the loneliness is gonna hit you, and anxiety is something you're gonna be familiar with. Certain places will bring back memories, and certain songs will remind you of him, certain moments will make you miss him. Almost anything and everything will trigger your feelings for him and it'll hurt you. You'll feel like getting back with him is the only thing that'll make you feel better. Being his girlfriend again would be the easy thing to do. That relationship is what feels safe and right and you'd pick up where you left off with him if you had the chance. But keep in mind, okay? Keep in mind that you aren't with him anymore for a reason and if you were to get back with him now, then you'll eventually break up with him again for the same reason it ended in the first place. Who knows how long it'll be hard for? However, as long as it may take, everything will get better in time because time really does heal everything, but that's only if you let it. So let it, because it'll be worth it.

IT'S OK TO CRY If you need to cry because you just broke up with someone who was so special to you, then cry… There’s nothing wrong with doing that because within those clear tears are hurt, pain, questions, love, anger regret and more. You must let them out or you will only explode within yourself. You may cry for many days and nights as you want, but just make sure when you're finished, you never cry for the same reason again, I know u feel so down but overtime you will be back to your old self, laughing again, having fun again and being who you truly are, It’s not the end, Someone understanding who won’t treat you like a toy just like the way your EX did will come your way and wipe away all your tears, erase that pain and even give you endless happiness. So sister is time to wake up and move on with your life and forget about that person who mistreated you.